Let’s REALLY perceive ANY reference to a Narcissist!! Narcissists have NO AUTHENTICITY in any way! They’re NOT actual mates, associates, good neighbors, companions, and so forth.! THEY DO NOT BOND WITH PEOPLE – THEY USE THEM AS OBJECTS AND ABUSE THEM TO KEEP THEM IN PLACE UNTIL THEY HAVE GOTTEN WHAT THEY WANT AND FOUND THEIR NEXT VICTIM!
From my E book – Greg Zaffuto – Writer – From Allure to Hurt and The whole lot else in Between with a Narcissist!
NOTHING they ever say or do is ever constant or aligns with the rest they could have stated or executed! What they are saying and what they do are ALWAYS two various things (or extra). Narcissists are pathological HYPOCRITES and they’re acutely conscious that they’re. Their phrases are meaningless and empty and ‘blanks’ that they use to govern an individual or state of affairs to THEIR benefit! They really feel utterly entitled to every little thing and something with out ever incomes it, working for it, asking for it, or exhibiting ANY appreciation for something – it’s THEIRS to take and pillage! Narcissists view the world as their playground to take no matter they need and by no means give again – it’s ALWAYS and ONLY about them and the deception and destruction they inflict within the course of.
What defines a Narcissist? ANYTHING they need that they’ll create or make as much as obtain one other agenda or higher but con job. They view or higher but PORTRAY themselves as all-powerful, moralistic, spiritual in addition to many different issues that they stamp onto their worldly resume – none of which have any actual connection to who and what they’re – abusive and damaging predators that need one thing from EVERY individual they arrive involved with and they’re going to use no matter they’ll to CHARM it out of them AND then attempt to destroy the individual they abused. There isn’t a marriage vow, bond, or connection to like that prohibits a Narcissist from doing precisely what they need as a result of there aren’t any penalties they really feel internally and actually there may be NO RELATIONSHIP with them.
It’s ABSOLUTELY wonderful how a Narcissist can cowl their tracks to cover what can solely be described as their perverse, poisonous, and out-of-control life-style. Keep in mind they don’t seem to be doing this simply to be the wonderful actors that they’re. These are misleading and abusive personalities that want this disguise to extort folks and life utilizing no matter instrument of abuse they’ll to realize their agenda – the perfect phrase right here is that they’re crafty like a fox – however at all times do not forget that they may try to destroy all of their targets/victims to keep away from publicity. That is who they’re, and it really works for them, they usually do NOT care who they hurt so long as it advantages THEM!
It’s extremely unlikely that anybody (even these folks you tried to clarify Narcissism too) HAVEN’T ever skilled somebody who has Narcissistic Character Dysfunction. Narcissists are ALWAYS flying below the radar with many disguises. They’re essentially the most CHARMING charmers, and simply so good to people who find themselves within the place to do one thing for them, or to individuals who simply should not have any closeness or function of their life to see actuality of who and what they’re. When you get emotionally near a narcissist, THEN AND ONLY THEN do you get to see them drop their rigorously crafted and charming masks that hides the out-of-control and abusive creature hiding behind it AND that’s after they’ve TOTALLY fooled and conned you.
A Narcissist by no means seems inward in a fashion to see that they’ve a persona dysfunction, or that their world is constructed on lies and appearances – that’s merely a medical definition for us to type of perceive them. Moreover, they by no means admit to being mistaken, doing something mistaken, or having wronged or destroying the various lives that they do. Nevertheless, the Narcissists HAS wronged others, be it dishonest, mendacity, manipulation, hurting them emotionally or bodily, BUT a Narcissist manages to undertaking blame on and into the targets/victims and everybody round them. Additionally they have their minions and a brand new provide to assist them or filter their lies via, in addition to conceal behind to keep away from publicity.
In reality, the Narcissist will view him/herself as superior or above the remainder of humanity. Narcissists don’t see themselves because the SELF-SERVING pathological and damaging individual that lives their complete life like a parasite utilizing and benefiting from others, objectifying folks, after which shifting on as soon as they’ve been emotionally drained and broken an individual. Nor does the Narcissist see how flimsy their skinny veneer of lies, and false credentials are. No as a substitute the Narcissist will undertaking their false picture and describe themselves as a hero of kinds or perhaps a saint so far as it issues humanity and their function right here on earth BECAUSE it’s their working mechanism in life as a result of in any other case, they’re simply an enormous void! That is a part of their disordered and broken self that permits the Narcissist to stay in full denial of the harm they inflict onto folks’s lives. There aren’t any written legal guidelines, guidelines, or laws {that a} Narcissist will observe. They’re in COMPLETE denial of their false lives! They’ve completely no notion or care because it issues proper and mistaken or reality and lies as a result of empathy doesn’t exist of their world and defines their persona dysfunction.
The Narcissist considers him/herself above the norms of goodness and elude or defer that any of their motion’s borderline being outright evil towards others. That’s the double-edged sword that they assault the world with. The reality is that their lives are all about double requirements or what serves them – if it wasn’t for double requirements, they’d not have ANY requirements in any respect. A Narcissist will stand tall and preach about morality as if all cheaters ought to burn twice in hell, however as he/she is giving their lecture from the pulpit they’re additionally surveying the room to search out a bit additional provide to have on the facet. However the Narcissist is just not a cheater of their thoughts – they’re DESERVING as a result of they’re particular and above reprise for his or her actions in life.
The actual definition of a Narcissist is that of a creature that’s so preoccupied and centered on their each want, pleasure and want that it utterly blinds the Narcissist from actuality and self-blame. The Narcissist re-writes actuality to suit his/her delusions and with each taker AND it’s just like the Narcissist profitable the lottery once they discover a new goal to extort and hurt. They relish the chase and kill and love the spoils they’ve stolen from the very folks that handled them with kindness, love, and respect! CLARITY is what saves us and strikes us onto restoration. Information, training, assist, and NO/Minimal contact! Greg